There are lots of weird or even dangerous folks out there. Don't rush into meet and make sure everyone is comfortable before diving in. It's well worth the effort! Good luck
It's fun when it goes well, as other folks say, don't rush, make initial contact in places that are comfortable for you. Set your ground rules, like being respectful and have fun.
I agree with everyone who says take your time and don't rush. A good way to get to know each other is at a party or social gathering where both parties feel comfortable
As I reminded you, be careful it have people who is fantasy people, picture collectors, jerk off men, Catfishing and fakes who don't intend to do anything and not very serious. That all on this site
My girl and I are trying g to get into it but no one here is patient, everyone in hurry to get the fuck. So this in my opinion is not the place if you trying to go slow.