Hey, I just replied to an old post just like this one: "Wow, so sorry no one replied in 18 months. Of course you are allowed. A swingers club is your ideal world. Single women are always welcome, I think even on couples only nights when single men are not allowed. And many clubs have free entrance for single women. You would be known as a unicorn. A beautiful unicorn! " I should add that I met a couple of "unicorns" at Club Fantasy in Frankfurt. 1 was 25, first time in club, other was 49 & a regular. They played together a while, then the 25yr old played with me + 2 other guys at same time, then I spent ages with the other lady. We all had a blast.