First of all, let's define the term swinging. Maybe some of you are new to the lifestyle and you are wondering what we are talking about.
The most important thing that you need to know about swinging is that it is an open relationship where both partners engage in sexual activities with other couples. And guess what? It is not considered cheating as long as you are doing it together.
It might seem weird for some people, but swinging is a very well-known practice all over the world. The couples that are practicing it are very discreet, but there are lots of swinging websites all over the internet.
It sounds interesting, right? Now that you are familiar with the term, let's see if you are ready to try it.
1. You really need to know why you are doing it. Are you bored with each other? Do you want to have sex with other people, but you don't want to cheat? Or do you want to spice up your sex life?
We truly advise you to think very well about it before you try it. It is very important to be on the same page with your partner.
2. One of the most common and good advice is to do it with your partner only if you trust each other 100%. The trust is one of the most important factors in swinging. Also, if you are a jealous or possessive partner, swinging just might not be for you.
3. Before getting into the LS, think about how you want to play – in the same room or in separate rooms. We advise you (at least in the begging) to play in the same room. If thinking about playing in the same room makes you feel uncomfortable, then do not do it. As we said, swinging is not for everyone.
4. Set your rules. Some couples have the “kiss rule”, where they do not kiss the other couples, no “oral sex” or so on. But what are your rules? If you have different opinions about these rules, you'd better think about it more.
5. It is very important to keep in mind that swinging means just sex, no feelings. If one of the persons involved is catching feelings, it could destroy everything. Be sure that your connection is very strong and secure. If you are not sure if you can have sex with someone without catching feelings, swinging might not before you.
Here are 5 of the most important things about swinging. Are you ready to do it? Do you have other questions? Do not hesitate to ask us in the comments sections.
If you know that you are ready, we are inviting you to join Swinging Love Club. The place where you can always find the couples you are looking for.